Coattail Riders


Today's forecast is cold hard facts everybody riding with you ain't riding for you.  Let the gas run out and see who'll help you push



Every once in a while, we need to check our circle for coattail riders.  The people around us really do matter.  We need to be strategic with our circle of influence. We need people who can support us, challenge us, and move us forward. We also need people who love us and with who we can have a healthy relationship.

Here's the problem with coattail riders.  It's their weight that can slow us down and stop us from rising.  The one thing that never fails is they will eventually damage other relationships around you, either by saying negative things to you or saying things to them about you, so as to ensure you and your resources are more available for them.

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A touch of love from,

Sunshine & Rainbows

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